20 October 2011
October 20, 2011
I would like to have discourse with you on the quality of love known as trust. Now trust involves many of the other attributes and qualities of love and nobility. Trust implies the keeping of the sanctity of one’s relationship with self, with others, with Creator. One gives all worry over to their higher Presence and extends that trust, that Love to others. This quality of Love is most important in a personal relationship, for without this quality, the relationship flounders in insecurity and doubt and the relationship cannot be sustained without trust as the foundation. It is the cornerstone and key in life.
When one’s trust in another is shattered, it creates a ripple effect that touches upon all that existed previously and was the basis upon which all else was built. Without this foundation, maintaining continuity in relationship is not possible unless one of the partners in the relationship is willing to do all that is possible to reestablish that trust. This requires ongoing diligence and perseverance, for the one who has been wronged has had their foundation rocked to the very core of their Being. It is possible to make reparations by consistent good deeds and devotion in order to heal what was shattered when the other’s trust was violated.
All that went before becomes a focus of scrutiny and observance, all that was taken for granted as written in love upon each heart, becomes fluid and no longer viable and calls into question every other aspect of relationship and the way to healing becomes obscured as questions arise and are not answered satisfactorily. For the one who was wronged, life becomes a series of questions that must be answered, answers that make sense and can heal the broken trust. Many times, misunderstandings arise when events happen that make one of the partners in a relationship seem as though they have violated the other’s trust when in fact, the events were entered into in total innocence and naivety.
If this occurs then the one who created the misunderstanding must do everything in their power to make the other aware of the misunderstanding. It cannot be swept under a rug and not dealt with in order to continue the status quo, for this is a breach of trust and must be cleared as quickly as possible with heartfelt sincerity and honesty. Anything less than this will not ease the other’s heart and their shaken faith in all that was perceived as good in their relationship. Many times relationships end due to these misunderstandings because one or both of the partners were not willing to forego their ego justifications and look beyond that to the beauty and clarity of their heart, and they let something precious and wonderful slip away.
In all things, always act with honesty and integrity in all that you do. By your example, you enable others to do the same. Always cultivate trust for that is an important and integral quality of love that is crucial to the happiness of yourselves and others who share your daily life. Above all, trust your higher Presence and Creator of All That Is, for always, they are guiding you to your own highest good.
I leave you now to ponder on these words and trust that you will find the jewel in them.
I AM Archangel Gabriel
©2011 Marlene Swetlishoff
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