As time progresses you should be aware that you are creating a new life for yourself. You are slowly beginning to discover the real you, a Being of magnificence and inner beauty. You are beginning to understand that “judgement” is something that you must overcome if you are to finally reach the level of a Cosmic Being. Truthfully no soul is in a position to judge another one, and will rarely if ever understand or be aware of their background that has led to their need for certain experiences. It is all planned in advance and covers lessons that need to be learnt to continue evolving.
Be assured that although you seem to be the “victim” of circumstances beyond your control, nothing of any importance really happens by chance. Your necessary life experiences are planned before you incarnate and your Guides help ensure that at the appropriate time they take place. They also do their best to keep you away from unplanned experiences that may incur more karma, but even so your freewill is paramount and respected. You could say that your Guides are the unsung and often unacknowledged heroes in your life, determined to do all they can to keep you to your life plan. They are equally keen to help where there are lessons to be learnt, so that you do not have to go through the same experience again.
You might ask what the benefit is to you assuming you have a successful life where your karmic responsibilities are concerned. Your immediate gain is that you should not expect to have to go through the same experiences again. That means you have moved up the ladder and your vibrations will have increased. You will have taken a step closer to your goal that is to achieve Ascension. The journey is very trying, and your challenge when you started out was to progress out of the lower vibrations, with little knowledge if any of your true self. However, now that Humanity has passed the marker, the truth of who you really are will become apparent. The vibrations are rising up and as they do so you will begin to leave the lower ones behind. At the same time you will become aware of your true self and understand where you are heading. Everything you do to make good progress will prove to be very worthwhile in the long run.